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Living The Life I Used To Envy- Create A Retirement Lifestyle Uniquely All Our Own

I was recently reminded that I am truly living the life I used to envy. A lifestyle I longed for way back when I was a struggling rat racer. There was also a reminder that what is considered a desired lifestyle, retired or otherwise, is unique to each of us. It’s important to understand how we want to live. It impacts what it will take to reach and support it. It’s another non financial aspect of personal finance that’s necessary to lock down our financial independence and ultimate lifestyle goals. 

Living The Life I Used To Envy- Create A Retirement Lifestyle Uniquely All Our Own

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Why and how I used my flavor of envy as another tool to escape the rat race to a better life

Envy isn’t normally considered a positive emotion. Especially when it turns against other people for our perceived view of their good fortune. I never held ill will towards anyone living the life I used to envy. I directed any negative emotions towards myself for not doing better to fix all the crap I was living with. Because of that self-blame, I’ve always had trouble entirely flipping my whole perspective by ditching envy to only embracing desire. Even though in my case they were one in the same. 

My flavor of envy motivated me to create goals and identify ways to recognize and then circumvent obstacles. Obstacles both of my own poor habits and those systematically placed that we’re all conditioned to accept. Acceptance due to dangled rewards for our sacrifice or as in most cases, punishment for being disloyal to the system’s demands.

From Early Retirement To Now Full Retirement, Living The Life I Used To Envy

The life I used to envy was only the highlight film version of other people’s lives that I saw as attractive and preferable to what I was living. It’s what I call the Hallmark Channel version of what that lifestyle fully entails. I wasn’t blind to the fact that it wasn’t a fully accurate or complete representation. It was the high bar vision that I strived for.

What I did was use that scrubbed clean version to base my planned future lifestyle on. Understanding it would be the best part of living. There will always be challenges to deal with in life. Every minute of our existence can’t be exciting or perfect Hallmark movie moments. The goal was to create a lifestyle that would provide as many of those moments that I could have and lessen any opportunity for life’s dirty stressors to take hold and be long lasting. Figuring out our uniquely desired life that we want to retire to is part of the long process to get to early retirement.

My Recent Reminder That Our Preferred Retirement Lifestyle Is Unique And All Our Own

I recently  accepted an invitation to a reunion lunch with ex-coworkers from my first long career. People I had worked with from the mid 90s until I retired young at the end of 2009. We had come together back then under strenuous circumstances and created a successful long-lasting work organization. Although I’ve had no contact with them since retiring, I thought it might be fun to see some of these folks again. Especially those who I respected and enjoyed working with. Only about a dozen people showed up. Half had aged into retirement and the other half were still working for the remnants of the same company. 

One person who I had happily worked with and who was still working for the megacorp asked me what I do in retirement. My response was simple, whatever I want to do. She then pressed for an example of my routine day. After running through a typical day I could see that she was less than impressed. 

I had no urge to explain all of the non-routine stuff like our travel, my free-time hobby pursuits, community connection, volunteering, time freedom, my work in different careers and subsequent retirements since leaving the megacorp, etc. I love my retirement lifestyle and don’t need to dress it up or verbally create an attention seeking social media look-at-me highlight moment to satisfy anyone. What we find as an attractive lifestyle is unique to each of us and that’s all that matters. 

The Hypothetical Lifestyle I Envied And Was Driven To Reach

My young adult life’s story was one of constant work obligations, debt, zero time for any kind of personal life balance, and many hard years of unfulfilled needs for myself and growing family. There were many long periods where I went to night school and/or worked 2 jobs from early morning to late night 5 and sometimes 6 days a week. Our socioeconomic status was one that everyone we knew were also part of. We all shared a similar lifestyle of financial struggle and employment servitude. 

The life I used to envy and wanted to have for us wasn’t based on anyone I knew. It was the glimpse of a simpler and less hectic life that I would sometimes see in movies and on television. A life of community, balance, family, friends, and mostly just having time to enjoy living. It was more Mayberry and none of what was depicted on Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous

I was attracted to characters who had close to home non glamorous jobs and non glamorous lives. They were part of a community with time to be involved in good causes and people that they cared about. That’s exactly what I was driven to strive for and have successfully created. 

The Importance Of Knowing What We Want To Retire To 

I wish that it wouldn’t take a retirement to fully live this better life. Maybe it’s easier now for people to pull it off while still in the grind. But for me there was always the never ending and always growing work demands from a ruthless megacorp system. A system that was many times controlled by hardline authoritarian and sometimes incompetent management. 

My early retirement motivation was enhanced by focusing not only on financial independence, but on being able to live the kind of life I used to envy. It’s the life I wanted to retire to. By figuring out what that desired lifestyle is we can then figure out all of the financial necessities and other personal efforts required to reach it.

What each of us puts priority on or values is uniquely subjective. However, there are common things we can all benefit from working towards.

Basic things that will create the desired lifestyle we want to live.
  • Concentrate on building strengthened close relationshionships with friends and family.  
  • Having both the time and will to pursue meaningful and fulfilling projects of interests and passion. 
  • Having and taking the time to maintain our mental and physical health by prioritizing self-care. 
  • Find worthy opportunities to give back to the community through volunteerism to help make a positive impact. 
  • Being curiously open to and learning about life’s full spectrum of difference and unknowns, from opportunities to cultures. 
  • Enjoy the lifestyle we’re creating by finding fun in all the moments between life’s highlights.

The life I used to envy and saw examples of from afar were ones I thought would provide time to have a sense of direction and purpose. A life of more than the constant demand from the system of career and consumer servitude to obediently sacrifice all of our time to unrewarding obligation. Our desired lifestyle and what we value is truly unique to each of us and nobody else’s validation is required.   

Snowbird Living: The Art of Seasonal Retirement Relocations

This article was contributed to Leisure Freak by logistics expert and travel enthusiast Lorelei Hawthorne. 

Embracing the art of seasonal retirement relocations entails a unique approach to the golden years, transcending traditional notions of settling into a single retirement location. Becoming a snowbird offers an enticing alternative for those seeking adventure and variety. After all, this presents retirees with the opportunity to escape the rigidity of a single domicile and, instead, savor the best of multiple worlds by strategically relocating with the changing seasons!

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The appeal of snowbird living

The appeal of snowbird living lies in its ability to help retirees truly enjoy their retirement years. Many seniors dream of escaping harsh winter weather, and seasonal retirement relocations allow them to do just that. Retirees can bask in pleasant climates by spending the winter months in warmer destinations, indulging in outdoor activities, and soaking up the sun. This seasonal escape offers a welcome change of scenery and a break from routine, making retirement more exciting and fulfilling. This kind of living also gives retirees the opportunity to explore various destinations, from sunny beaches to charming mountain towns, enriching their retirement experiences. 

Choosing your snowbird destination

Choosing your snowbird destination is a crucial decision. So, you need to decide what you value in a destination. Do you want a relaxing garden where you can unwind amid lush greenery? Or perhaps a place with many nature walk trails to stay active and explore the outdoors? Your preferences play a significant role in this decision-making process.

Moreover, consider factors like climate, local amenities, and proximity to healthcare facilities. Research each potential destination thoroughly to ensure it aligns with your needs and interests! Additionally, consider the social aspects – are you looking for a bustling community or a quieter, serene environment? You can find the perfect destination that suits your desires by carefully evaluating these aspects.

Preparing for your first snowbird season

Preparing for your first snowbird season is crucial in ensuring a smooth and enjoyable experience. To start, creating a detailed budget is essential. Calculate your accommodations, travel, and daily living expenses, factoring in any unforeseen costs. Next, finding suitable accommodations is key. So, research and book your lodging well in advance to secure the best deals. Lastly, consider downsizing and storage options if needed. Adequate preparation will make your first snowbird season enjoyable and stress-free, allowing you to relish the benefits of seasonal retirement relocation.

Navigating the legalities

Navigating the legalities of snowbird living is crucial for a hassle-free retirement adventure. To begin, understanding residency requirements is essential. Different states or countries may have varying rules regarding the duration and criteria for residency, impacting your taxes and benefits. Tax implications also need your attention. Consult with a tax professional to comprehend your tax obligations in your home and snowbird destination.

Furthermore, consider insurance aspects. Ensure your health, auto, and property insurance are valid across locations, or seek policies tailored to your snowbird lifestyle. It’s vital to have the right legal and financial documents, such as wills, powers of attorney, and property titles, to avoid complications in emergencies. By proactively addressing these legalities, you can confidently enjoy your snowbird living experience.

Packing essentials for snowbird living

Packing essentials for snowbird living requires careful planning to adapt to varying climates. Firstly, consider clothing versatile enough for different weather conditions, from warm beach days to chilly mountain evenings. Don’t forget essential documents, like identification, medical records, and insurance information, stored securely. Travel light, especially if you’ll be moving between locations frequently, and opt for compact, space-saving packing solutions. Think about specialized gear for activities you plan to pursue, such as hiking or golfing. Downsizing is an opportunity, so donate or store items you won’t need during your snowbird season. Lastly, ensure you have necessary items for daily living, like kitchen supplies and toiletries, but buy perishables locally to save space. With smart packing, you can optimize your snowbird experience, having everything you need while staying light and mobile.

Managing finances during snowbird living

Managing finances during snowbird living is crucial for worry-free retirement relocation. First, establish a clear financial plan that includes banking and financial services accessible in your home and snowbird destinations. Carefully manage bills and expenses to avoid surprises and maintain a comfortable lifestyle. Considering investments and retirement income sources is also essential for long-term financial stability. Moreover, embracing digital tools and online banking can simplify financial management, allowing you to monitor your accounts regardless of location. Of course, you can enjoy the benefits of becoming a digital nomad after retirement, as many financial transactions and investments can be managed remotely. By staying vigilant and organized with your finances, you can ensure a financially secure retirement.

Dealing with seasonal healthcare

Dealing with seasonal healthcare is a vital aspect. Accessing medical care in your snowbird destination should be a top priority, so research local healthcare facilities and find a reliable healthcare provider. Maintaining your health insurance coverage while understanding potential limitations when you’re away from your primary residence is also wise. Additionally, consider purchasing travel insurance to bridge any gaps in coverage. Staying healthy through preventive measures is equally essential, too. So, prioritize regular check-ups and vaccinations, especially if traveling to different countries with varying health risks.

Furthermore, keeping an up-to-date medical record and a list of emergency contacts is invaluable. And finally, know the nearest hospitals and clinics in case of medical emergencies. With proper planning and awareness, you can ensure that your healthcare needs are well-managed during your seasonal relocations.

Final Thoughts on Seasonal Retirement Relocations

In the end, mastering the art of seasonal retirement relocations allows individuals to redefine their retirement experience, trading monotony for adventure and embracing a diverse life. The journey of seasonal relocation unveils a world of possibilities, proving that retirement is not a destination but a journey made all the more fulfilling.

Much thanks to Lorelei Hawthorne for sharing these useful tips for seasonal retirement relocations. 

seasonal retirement relocations Author Bio:

Lorelei Hawthorne, a passionate travel enthusiast and logistics expert at Ryder Relocations NJ, brings a unique blend of wanderlust and meticulous planning to her writing. With years of experience orchestrating seamless relocations, Lorelei has an innate talent for turning every travel tale into an adventure. Her ability to uncover hidden gems in well-trodden and offbeat paths has made her a trusted source for those seeking unforgettable journeys!

I’m Aging Out Of Early Retirement So It’s Time For Full Retirement And Goodbye

It has been a great ride, but I’m now aging out of early retirement. I’ll hit the official retirement age of 65 in a couple of months and have already done the mandatory signup for Medicare. While that little retirement benefit will save me a lot of money in my budget, it also depressingly makes it clear that I’ll officially be considered by governmental definitions as elderly. YIKES! 

I still feel like I am an early retiree. I used to feel like I was always 35 inside my head. Then that switched to a still youthful 55 as the years passed by and has held steady there. Feeling younger than our birthday dictates is one thing, reality the other. I’m more proud of being an early retiree than I am about my past career. A career is what we are conditioned to believe we need or have to do. Early retirement is what I decided I wanted to accomplish regardless of what the system demands. 

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I’m Aging Out Of Early Retirement, Time To Say Goodbye

The world moves quickly and we all change with it. After 13 years of early retirement and 9 years since starting Leisure Freak sharing what I did and any other tips to help others wanting to walk the path of FIRE, Leisure Freak will retire with me. It’s aging out of early retirement too.  In a way an early retirement of its own by a few months. I knew this day would come but until today it was always a tomorrow thing. But now is the right time.

Although my story and what I did to retire early is based on valid personal finance principles that still hold true today, much of my experience likely seems ancient with today’s challenges. It was painfully evident as I struggled to personally offer new relevant content. I have pretty much said all there is for me to say without sounding like an out of touch old coot

I happily accomplished much of my early retirement bucket list. There were some rewarding retirement gigs, lots of recreation, increased my social network in my community, and volunteer work. I’ve enjoyed learning all there was to having a website and sharing my early retirement story. I’ve been touched by all those who contacted me or commented that I helped them in their own journey or provided inspiration to create their own plan. I appreciate all of my Leisure Freak readers and all of the support I’ve received from my online friends and partners.

I still plan on following my favorite sites and staying in touch with my closest associates. I’ll remain reachable at my leisurefreaktommy gmail account. I’m looking forward to what comes next in retirement or I suppose what will be FIR instead of FIRE. I’m just now leaving the very worthy FIRE quest talking points to those who may offer more current experiences to meet today’s personal financial freedom challenges. 

Once again, thank you all

Leisure Freak Tommy

The Brilliance Of A Retire By 50 Plan

There’s a brilliance to dedicating yourself to a retire by 50 plan. The brilliant part that’s overlooked by naysayers is if you do it right, you can’t lose. It goes beyond the obvious financial aspects. It also allows us to mentally approach work with a healthier mindset. That then leads to enjoying both work and life on a higher level. 

I constantly thank my younger self for having the insight to go against normally accepted societal work and consumerist practices. My younger self instead pursued financial independence with the goal of retiring earlier than the traditional age. Something positive happens when we take control of our lives. Especially when we do so with our financial life. It provides a healthy focus and ultimately power. 

I was happy to read about how Millennials want to retire at 50. They’re now in or nearing their forties. I was 40 when I had the same burning desire. The article eagerly focuses a bit on the obstacles. It wasn’t easy for me to retire early and it certainly isn’t easy now. So what? Anything worthwhile is never easy. 

The Brilliance Of A Retire By 50 Plan

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Done Right, You Can’t Lose With A Retire By 50 Plan

This is what I found to be the best part. Even if you fail you’ve still won. Doing something is always ahead of doing nothing. Setting oneself up through a retire by 50 plan pays off long before reaching the goal line. It does take constant monitoring of not only progress but feelings about how we are living. 

One of the biggest naysayer talking points is having to waste your life in voluntary poverty in order to save enough to pull off early retirement. Here’s the problem with that nag. If done right there is no feeling of poverty or feeling of a deprived lifestyle. Naysayers should worry more about living in fear of losing a job. Fear of putting up with workplace garbage in desperation to work until old age. Fear of worrying about where to get money in an emergency.

We set ourselves up both mentally and financially while we’re doing it.

Frugal adaptability, living a non deprived lifestyle. 

Nobody should dedicate themselves to a retire by 50 plan that leaves them feeling they are living a deprived life. There will always be tradeoffs. The great thing is we get to decide for ourselves what we want and the way to get there. All is defined by us.

I found that we could still live an enjoyable life while cutting wasteful spending, eliminating debt, and setting aside money for our future. When my family or myself felt it went too far, we scaled back. When things changed and we could cut something that wouldn’t be much missed, we then did so. Frugality is different when you do it with purpose. It’s a major form of taking control. It will change over time in both what we do and how we do it.

My salary never made it to 6 figures. Frugality was a must to succeed with my retire by 50 plan. The lower the cost of my self defined happy lifestyle, the more I could save from our income to eliminate debt and invest. Creating a lower cost of living also means needing a smaller portfolio size to support it once retired. 

Divorcing our identity away from our chosen career.

It is too easy to get wrapped up in our careers. We educate, learn skills, gain experience, and work hard to advance. But it’s also easy to mentally frame our identity around our work and career accomplishments. Dedicating oneself to a retire by 50 plan starts the mental process of seeing our career as the means, not the ends nor our life focus. 

Starting my early retirement plan began my understanding that my work is transactional. It’s not a marriage of mutual interest or loyalty. It was always that way, but I found myself believing otherwise while leaning into my career over the years. 

I was painfully disappointed many times during my career thinking that it was a fair exchange based on long standing rules and promises. I wasted many years in obedience to a false employment perception and could see there are no real rules requiring the honoring of agreements when you have no power to enforce them. Getting our head straight about this aspect is the first mental step to work identity liberation. It will ultimately help us during our retirement transition once we ditch the rat race too.

The can’t lose fact: We will be far more financially ahead than if we had not made this decision.

Even if we miss our savings goals we’re miles ahead of where we would be if we hadn’t been on the retire by 50 plan. I was 9 years into my 10 year plan when the great recession hit. A year later at age 50 my target was missed because market conditions caused a diminished portfolio but I was way ahead of a lot of desperate working people in a time of constant layoffs. 

There is no way to know how we will feel, what we will be doing, or how the economy will be in the future. It’s a lot easier to come out on top if we stay on plan and have the options that come from living a financially disciplined life.  

Hustle- Chasing money will transition to chasing interests and passions.

When I was climbing the career ladder I felt like I had to put money ahead of all other decisions when it came to work. Work overtime, take extra shifts, second or third jobs, accept unpleasant tasks, whatever it took. I couldn’t turn away a chance to bring in extra money to make ends meet. Nor say no because it might tick-off the boss. As my retire by 50 plan was fully engaged with measurable progress it became easier to be choosy about what I would lean into. 

I still had a desire to accept opportunities to earn extra money or advance my position and salary. But I didn’t just accept anything because I no longer felt desperate to do so. I became focused on aspects I like doing, wanted to do, and wanted to learn more about doing. Within company work guidelines, I was mentally freed to easily reject any unpleasant assignment. I found that I was able to care less about management’s feelings and confident in knowing another opportunity that was better aligned with my goals would come.

Redefine retirement- Working in retirement is easier when retired in your 50s.

It’s time we redefine retirement, especially early retirement. Retirement is the absence of needing to work, not the absence of working. Having a retire by 50 plan allows us the time to earn skills and direct our attention to making ourselves attractive to opportunity if we choose to pursue them. Whether to start our own business or do as I did and seek opportunity into other fields that we had passion and interest in learning and doing. My early retirement work was very rewarding. The time working through a retire by 50 plan can be useful in preparing for this retirement definition shift. 

There’s no shame in missing an age 50 date.

Retiring by 50 is not easy for most people. Salary constraints, debt issues, economic shifts, market volatility, and the cost of living where one lives comes into play. Something all the naysayers lean into. The age 50 is a goal, not a measurement of failure if missed. The brilliance of this target is it gives us time to fine tune and define what success will look like while we’re on the path to try to meet it. Something that will shift as we live our lives, experience new things, and we age. 

The Nothing Tricky Financial Side of Things- The way I started my retire by 50 plan

There are all kinds of advice and metrics that are recommended on how to develop a retire by 50 plan or any financial independence plan. Some are basic and others seem extreme or unattainable because of our own unique economic factors. Personal finance is uniquely personal. When I started my FIRE journey there was little internet or anything on the internet about it. There were few books on the subject. Here’s the high-level approach I took.

Build an emergency fund.

The conventional advice is to save 6 months worth of expenses in an emergency fund. Great if you can, but if you can’t don’t let that stop you. 

I started with a target of 6 months housing, not full lifestyle expenses. In my case it was a modest mortgage payment. The idea was if I lost my job I could get by until getting back on my feet with unemployment or temporary work. 

Setting emergency savings goals at different levels was the way I approached this. I felt that it was important to cover the other necessary personal finance aspects too and not go all in exclusively on a full 6 month emergency fund first. I dropped this to a small monthly allotment until I could ramp up emergency savings amounts as the other retire by 50 plan goals were met. 

Eliminate debt.

One of the reasons I was slow to build a respectable emergency fund was I had debt to clear. We were good to avoid a lot of credit card debt at this point in our lives but with a family there were always the occasional large financial hit that caused me to tap an equity line of credit against the house. 

Our debt load was eventually reduced not only by a dedicated amount from income but also by savings from making lifestyle changes through frugality. Debt was a primary target of earnings to resolve first. One of my delayed emergency fund goal relief thinking was that if the worst happened I could still access needed money from the line of credit that I was paying off. 

Set and Work Towards Meeting An Overall Savings Goal 

I had dug into defining our lifestyle costs over a number of months while setting aside money. When it was time to figure out an overall retire by 50 savings target, I sought the help of a financial planner. I was not saving enough and wasn’t saving it in the right places or allocations to meet my early retirement goal. It was hard to squeeze more out but we found it was there all along. With having solid direction it was easy to dedicate ourselves to the plan.

The Goal Of A Maxed out 401K.

The first rule I accepted regardless of my income level was If your employer matched a percentage of your 401K savings, then you have to at least do that. Mine at first was a measly 100% match of my first 3% of 401K savings. Not doing it was leaving money on the table. I started at this small percentage earlier in my career but bumped it up to 10% which was where I was at when I chose a retire by 50 plan. 

While I was still working on the other goals, I began adding about half the amount of my yearly salary increase to 401K allocation increases. As debt was cleared and emergency fund goals were met I was eventually able to set aside the allowed 401K maximum yearly allocation. When the IRS raised the allowed threshold I also increased my allocation. It is important to invest early because time is our greatest ally and the more we have invested the more time helps us. 

Maxed out IRA and Roth IRA strategy. 

My wife and I never made enough money to limit our participation in side funding an IRA or Roth IRA alongside 401K savings. Once I was meeting 100% funding of my 401K I started funding an IRA and Roth IRA. I initially split the yearly maximum IRA limit between the two types for both my wife and I. 

Because contributed Roth IRA amounts can be accessed if necessary without penalty or tax, I later funded the yearly maximum amounts into our Roth IRA accounts instead of splitting it with IRA contributions. I saw the Roth as another emergency fund source although that was not its primary retire by 50 plan objective.

Began non-retirement account savings and investments.

I eventually added a non-retirement investment account. I chose a stock mutual fund through a financial planner I was using.

Leveraged my skills for better pay. 

I became a courageous salary negotiator. My journey and shifted goals toward early retirement allowed the time to open my mind to see things from a different place. I went from going with the flow at all costs to advance my career, to challenging management misdeeds to secure the higher income that I earned so I could further feed my retire by 50 plan. 

This also reduced workplace disappointment. It was replaced with the strength to demand what was promised if I held up my end of any bargain. My growing portfolio and financial confidence provided the power to leverage my skills and accomplishments. 

Having my well won financial backing allowed me to stick up for myself without fear of job loss or worry about any quiet firing tactics

Establish an early retirement funding strategy.

My portfolio was primarily behind 401K and IRA accounts. That meant getting required retirement funding at age 50 without early withdrawal penalty by using a SEPP 72t arrangement. This substantially equal periodic payments scheme allowed me to start receiving monthly checks from my IRA at age 51 without penalty and only paying normal income taxes. A sort of  backdoor approach to fund early retirement. When I took on paid work I would live off of my retirement income. Then i’d invest all of my work earnings back into my net worth. 

Having an early retirement healthcare strategy.

Of all the early retirementment costs that await us, healthcare is most likely the trickiest. What I paid when I first retired 13 years ago and what I pay today is beyond any of my planning.

This one is tough because things can change over the duration of our early retirement journey. The way I see planning ahead for a retire by 50 date is to stay informed about early retirement healthcare, learn the ins and outs of the ACA, and vote in your future’s best interest. 

If There Is A Trick, It’s This-

The trick is to have the discipline to knock out the primary goals and increase retirement savings as soon as you can get to it. But at the same time finding a happy medium living your defined efficient and enjoyable frugal lifestyle. If the word frugal is a turnoff, use purposeful.

It is a choice to live a life of optimism based on actions taken instead of just hoping it somehow works out. It’s optimism based on our financial investments and investments in ourselves through solid personal financial discipline.

The best part of being dedicated to ditching the rat race while young is we get to determine what lifestyle meets our needs and allows us to still live a happy life. We can practice and refine it over time. There are no hard rules and if you screw it up it just means a retirement delay. Understanding what our enjoyable retirement lifestyle would be like and what it would cost provides enormous motivation and confidence in knowing we have a solid financial target.

The brilliance of a retire by 50 plan goes beyond actually reaching the goal. It is the way that it trains our brain to see life, spending, work, and power differently. We can improve our lives while on the journey. Even if we fail to hit our financial target by age 50 we still win. We are closer than if we hadn’t and it’s surely better than failing a risky work until 70 retirement plan

The Longer In Early Retirement, The Easier It Gets

When I was first contemplating retiring young, the idea of funding my lifestyle over decades was of high concern. A lot has happened and changed over the nearly 13 years on this early retirement ride. Even in this high inflationary period, I do believe that the longer in early retirement, the easier it gets. Not that it was all that hard in the beginning. It’s just more comfortable and enjoyable with less worry, more coasting along. 

The Longer In Early Retirement, The Easier It Gets

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It Has Only Got Easier The Longer I’ve Lived Early Retirement Freedom

Of course, a major retiree worry is burning through our money before we leave the planet. As the years have stacked up, there have been a lot of ups and downs in our portfolio. We never started with hitting the magical million dollar number to begin with. What we did was maintain a reasonably frugal lifestyle while still being able to travel as much as we wanted to, help our kids and grandkids out when necessary, and have a blast doing it. As time passes, the easier it gets.  

The Easier It Gets Financially

Budgeting

We used to feel like we had to watch it like a hawk. Now it’s pretty much on autopilot. Our frugalish lifestyle and spending habits have stuck. There is little yearly budget deviation except for the occasional emergency or small planned indulgence.
When the first of the year healthcare or other insurance/tax cycles cause big increases, we make necessary adjustments without worrying about things as much as we used to do early on. 

Since retiring over a decade ago, we’ve seen how over a 12 month period it all smooths out in the end. Even when there were some high monthly hits that were encountered. 

Adapting To Rising Healthcare Costs

We were lucky. The first few years of early retirement only brought small yearly increases. It then went obscene and it was a huge pain in the assets. Over time we’ve been able to take it in stride. We still get ticked off, but with every year that passes we get closer to Medicare eligibility. We just automatically assume we will be adjusting the budget in spending and income to cover it with a lot less worry until age 65. 

Riding Out Market Swings

There are some things we just can’t control, even with a well diversified portfolio. Market volatility swings can cause a lot of early retiree sweating. It was something that caught my attention in the early years causing some worst case worrying. 

The longer I’ve been doing this early retirement thing and living off of my portfolio, the easier it gets to just roll with it and trust the plan. I do check balances and run numbers when it has taken negative hits like it has of late. 

A quick run of the FIREcalc retirement calculator using the new lower portfolio total along with any new income requirements and Social Security data is all it takes to remove any concerns. Well, including Social Security and you know…… that growing older reduced years circling the sun thing. It’s a simple equation:

Social Security income coming in sooner

+ Less years left to fund

= Enough even with a reduced portfolio number to cover current market loss in the overall retirement funding calculation. 

If the calculated success percentage came up poorly, I would calmly do what we now have a history of doing, make necessary adjustments. 

Aging Closer to Medicare and Social Security

As mentioned above, I do use our Social Security figures as part of our overall retirement planning. That and the big reduction in health insurance costs that Medicare will provide us. We will finally reap the promised benefit from paying into our nation’s retirement system for our entire working lives. The longer in early retirement, the closer we inch to retirement portfolio funding assistance. Ya, ya, I know there is talk among certain politicians that some people of politics are looking to kill it. If they do then I suppose this country will be dealing with an even bigger and more dangerous problem than any retirement budget adjustments or income shortcomings I will have. 

The Easier It Gets Non Financially 

What Work Identity?

Early in retirement, I did everything I could to prepare for leaving my career title behind. Even so, there were still some mental adjustments that took time to work through. The longer in early retirement, the easier it was to put it all in the past. In fact, I have trouble remembering many names of those I worked with over the 31 years of that career. It all seems like a previous life that matters about as much as if not less than my highschool portion of life.

Having A Better Social Life

The first issue I recognized as a big hole in my early retirement was my social life. It took no time to realize almost all of my social circle revolved around work. I had to make a concentrated effort to grow my social life in the first months and years of retirement. My social life is now broadly community and hobby based. I have only one person that I’m still in regular contact with from my first long-held career, and that is just fine.

Wanting Less Because I’ve Already Scratched My Itches

There was a lot of daydreaming about what early retirement would be like and what I wanted to do before pulling the trigger. Once I retired at the age of 51 I was still full of the same high energy and production based conditioning I had when I was a career engineer. I enjoyed down time to the fullest and entered into paid gigs of interest and passions. I see now that some of that was also driven by another necessary transition- trying to get over myself and invisibility. Scratching these itches were both necessary and extremely rewarding in many ways.

 

A lot has changed over the 12+ years in early retirement. I scratched all my itches, transitioned away from work identity, grew my social circle, learned to fully trust my savvy personal finance skills/plan, and have relaxed over time into a comfortable energy level of retirement living. 

I still pursue new passions and ideas that I have interest in, but I’ve learned that I have nothing to prove to anyone, not even myself. 

Time, experience, and maturity has made me a better early retiree and made early retirement easier to enjoy to the fullest.

The Most Affordable Places to Retire in the US

This post was contributed to Leisure Freak by freelance writer Deborah Waters. 

Hundreds of thousands of Americans retire and move every year, saying goodbye to the working world and welcoming a new environment. They choose to retire in regions that offer great weather, a variety of activities, decent health care, and reasonable costs so that their retirement savings can last a more extended period. Even in the United States, you may be able to check all of those boxes. To help you decide whether or not to remain in the United States after retirement, we’ve compiled a list of some of the most affordable places to retire. For seniors looking for a comfortable, low-cost home close to all the conveniences of city life, here are some of the most affordable places to retire in the US.

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Prescott, Arizona, might be your place to retire

Grand Canyon State’s retiree-friendly climate and natural beauty are likely to have piqued your interest. In addition, the tax situation is similarly appealing. Arizona is one of the most affordable places to retire in the US because of its low income taxes and lack of state taxes on social security. The cheap cost of living in Prescott, a town roughly 100 miles north of Phoenix, makes saving money with a big family easier. Bear in mind that the opposite of cheap isn’t dull. While Prescott has a thriving art and entertainment scene, it also has a wide range of outdoor activities like golfing and hiking. So you’ll never be bored!

Boise, Idaho, is a green and affordable retirement option

If you’re a lover of lush greenery, Boise is the place for you! Boise, Idaho, a mid-sized city on the Oregon Trail known as “the city of trees,” has a green and vibrant retirement community. And the best thing is, there’s plenty of help at hand if you want to move here from a distant location. Hiring long-distance movers Boise residents trust will make your relocation easy and stress-free. With reliable assistance nearby, you won’t have to worry about a thing. 

There are many options for shopping and dining in downtown Boise’s pedestrian-friendly area. Mountain climbing, canyoning, and whitewater rafting are all available in Southwest Idaho. But that’s not all! For all the curious types out there, Boise State University is a great place to keep your mind active as you become older. You can also get a membership in the Osher Lifelong Learning Institute. This allows you to take classes at the school, and it’s just $70 a year! As far as entertainment goes, Boise doesn’t disappoint. Musicians from around the world play at the Velma V. Morrison Center, which also offers dance events and Broadway productions. Boise is one of the comfiest and most affordable places to retire with low living costs!

Fargo, North Dakota, offers endless fun

For decades, North Dakota has been one of the finest places to retire because of its low prices and generous tax structure. If you’re planning to retire in the Peace Garden State, you’ll find it to be a smart financial move. For retirees, housing expenses in Fargo are 14.3% lower than the national average. This makes it an excellent option for those on a budget. And what’s better, early retirement doesn’t mean endless boredom when living in Fargo! North Dakota State University, which is located here, is one of several universities in the area that offer a wide range of amenities for people of all ages. Sports and cultural activities like concerts and plays are abundant. Along with being one of the most affordable places to retire in the US, Fargo will capture your heart with its lively and homey atmosphere.

Albuquerque, New Mexico, is a lively place to retire

In Albuquerque, you can look forward to a peaceful and sunny retirement. The city receives an average of 310 sunshine days per year, spanning all four seasons. This provides you with many options to explore the numerous hiking and bike trails in and around the city. You can also go hot air ballooning and play golf on any of the multiple courses in the surrounding area. As night falls, local casinos—which include music venues, restaurants, and other amenities in addition to table games, slots, and bingo—help revitalize the local nightlife. All of this is accompanied by lower-than-average costs. But if you still want to make some money before relocating, there are easy ways to do so! One of the simplest ways is selling your old furniture to make a quick buck. You will be earning money for your move and saving money because you’ll be moving fewer furniture pieces.

Lexington, Kentucky, is calling at the students at heart

As you might guess, the Bluegrass State has a lot to offer for horse enthusiasts and bourbon connoisseurs alike. However, retirees can explore a variety of other hobbies in Lexington. A 734-acre nature preserve with more than 10 miles of hiking trails is located here. Lexington contains more than 100 parks and six public golf courses! Inside the city, you can enjoy the several available galleries and theaters, including the Lexington Opera House. This opera house hosts ballets and other performances, including Broadway productions, comedy acts, and other events. 

Additionally, the University of Kentucky offers academic programs to meet your educational needs. The Osher Lifelong Learning Institute provides a variety of courses, forums, interest groups, trips, and events for adults 50 and older. Annual membership is $25 and includes access to all of the Institute’s programs. The Donovan Fellowship provides Kentucky citizens aged 65 and older with the opportunity to attend university classes for free. As a result of these and other factors, Lexington is considered one of our best college cities for retirement.

Final words

We hope that this guide has introduced you to some of the most affordable places to retire in the US. Your financial situation will determine the best retirement place for you. But, even if you’re on a low budget, you can still retire in a city with pleasant weather and excellent amenities if you choose wisely. We wish you an eventful retirement and a happy relocation!

 

Thank you Deborah Waters for contributing this informative post to Leisure Freak. Retirement is a time to explore new and exciting paths to take. Moving to a new location that meets a well earned freedom lifestyle is always something the untethered can happily think about.

The Most Affordable Places to Retire in the USAuthor bio:

Deborah Waters is an Idaho native that currently works as a freelance writer and blogger for peasleyboisemovers.com. In her free time, she enjoys the great outdoors, practicing yoga and long walks with her corgi named Chika.

 

My Shameless Anti-Economy Sins of FIRE That Can Benefit Anyone

To be clear, for what I’m about to confess, I remain fully unrepentant. I understand that I’m considered deplorable in the eyes of some government, economic, business, and corporate authorities. I shamelessly stand by my anti-economy sins of FIRE. Although what I confess may cause authoritative scorn, I share my path because I know that anyone can benefit from adopting my sinful examples. But do so knowing what you may risk taking this path of wickedness.

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The Anti-Economy Sins of FIRE Of Which I’m Guilty Of

Time to lighten things up. I find that in today’s divisive and anti-everything environment that the only way to get some people to pay attention is to join the darkside. So on that note, here are the anti-economy sins of FIRE that can benefit anyone who dares walk this same path.

My biggest anti-economic sin is practicing the dark arts of frugality with purpose.

Spend-baby-spend is the call of this consumer based world economy. My anti-economy sin goes beyond frugality, it also includes a heavy dose of purposeful spending. I only buy what I need and only from sources I like. Oh my, it’s my personal sinful dabbling into cancel-culture. All the laughable political screaming about “cancel-culture” has me deciding that I am willing to play in this sin to personally feel better about, wait for it…. MY LIFE. 

I admit there are some businesses and products I purposely refuse to spend money on or at.

Freedom baby! I don’t go around screaming who and why, nor wearing a provocative hat or T-Shirt to make a big deal about it. I just quietly stay on budget and purposely choose where my money goes. If a business, whether at point of sale, corporate or owner level acts like Jack-Holes or goes out of their way to promote Jack-Holes, they are cancelled from my budget.

My spending moto: Only do business where they act decently. I don’t want or need to hear about their perversions. Not everyone wants to know you enjoy humping active beehives.

Inflation has me cancel some product purchases until either prices come down or I change my mind on whether it represents a good value. 

Funny thing about all of this. We haven’t been left feeling for want or deprived. There are always alternatives. My money, my choice! 

Frugality with purpose adds the huge financial benefit of being able to live my life of freedom on less money. I needed less in my portfolio to fund my economically sinful early retirement lifestyle so I could ditch the rat race without first acquiring a massive portfolio. On top of that, because of my lower yearly income needed, I’m able to pay far less in taxes. 

Next on the anti-economic sin list is my refusal to work.

Oh the wicked horror of practicing this sin in a time of business complaints over the lack of people to hire. During this time of the anti-work movement and the great resignation where there’s a huge need to fill job openings, I’m passing on opportunities to chase carrots to build even more wealth. I must be some kind of economic heretic. It must be economically selfish and sinful when an able bodied and skillful person purposely refuses to work for the good of the consumer centric economy, profits, and the tax base. 

I’m committing the sin of breaking  the commandment that when the economic beast is hungry none shall escape except when “they” don’t need you anymore. It’s funny to me how other times it’s not a sin but totally cool with the economy gods to voluntarily lean out. As was the case when I retired young in 2009 among the masses of the downsized.

I’ve actually enjoyed working since I first retired 12 years ago.

I’ve been able to learn and do rewarding work that has been on my bucket list while increasing net worth at the same time. But I only take on retirement work when on my terms. Not all jobs are opportunities. Being picky is something FIRE sinfully allows to be the highest priority. It would take a very special retirement job pitch to get me back in the game. Shameful, just shameful, NOT! 

That said, my refusal to work isn’t set in stone as never. Just not now.

I sinfully use my credit card but I never pay interest.

Plastic, the easy way to buy whatever you want and need. Many do it as designed. Buy more than you can payoff each month and pay high interest for the privilege of being allowed to do so. Banks don’t provide credit cards out of kindness, but some do offer rewards to lure you to use them. It is easy to assume that they do this knowing most will slip up and spend more than they can clear. Then becoming locked into paying monthly interest on their unpaid balances. 

My sin is using the hell out of our rewards credit card and winning their game by always paying the balance off each month. For over 25 years I’ve paid no interest but have reaped cash rewards. We cash out credit rewards to cover 35% to 50% of our overall Christmas budget each year.

Not my biggest anti-economic sin but perhaps considered the worst: Promoting my sinful ways to corrupt others to join me.

I shamelessly promote my anti-economy sins of FIRE here on Leisure Freak and every chance I get. Although I never word it in this dark tainted manner. I’m just talking about the same personal finance habits that get pitched in a positive tone everywhere else but trying to appeal to those who are better motivated by having an adversarial emotion to do something that’s actually positive. 

Do any of the economic overlords really care about my promoting these sins? I doubt it. They know most people won’t pay attention and will continue on their normal consumer, employment, and debtor path that has systematically been laid out. Sadly, that is something I know they’re right about.  

Beware the sins of FIRE risks

Walking this wicked economically sinful path doesn’t come without risks. 

Those with the power to hire set the commandments. No matter how accomplished you are in your field, take time away and you may be punished. Skills will be seen as diminished. Your escape can be used against you if you ever wish to chase new opportunities in the future. 

You can never complain about low, lax, or incompetent service. There is a risk of over challenging your patience capabilities. If you sin against the economy then you must accept labor shortages and their impacts. You will have to lower expectations and still feel gratitude towards those who are obedient to the mainstream consumer economic system. 

There’s the risk that there may be times when you feel yourself being a hypocrite. Preaching the benefits of your anti-economy sins of FIRE while knowing full well that if everyone joined you the economy would crash. That would certainly destroy the benefits of your economically wicked ways. Nah, I think keeping personal finance and the freedom it provides a secret is the far greater sin.

Pandemic, Inflation, Busted Supply Chain, Still A Great Time To Be On FIRE

It’s no wonder that I run into people delaying their early retirement. But for anyone with personal financial discipline, this is still a great time to be on FIRE and pulling the retirement trigger. There is a lot of gloom and doom to go around. At least that’s what some people focus on and it sure makes for headlines. In these times we certainly have much to be concerned about with a pandemic, rising inflation, and the occasional shortages of things we want or need. There’s a lot that is and can go wrong. But for those striving for financial independence and early retirement who are stuck sitting on the fence because of everything going on, there’s no better place than FIRE to be in or making the moves necessary for being there.

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Why This Is A Great Time To Be On FIRE

First off, I do think a lot of things are getting too expensive. However when I look around, for all the boo-hooing about gas prices and the high cost of goods, there has been no shortage of road traffic or store checkout lines. Apparently people are still willing to spend the money. The environment is so unlike the days of the great recession when I retired at the age 51. People then changed their spending and driving behavior. As long as there remains unbridled spending, it looks like things aren’t really as dire as some fear mongers hope to exploit or the fearful to allow to hold them back. Once consumers get to changing behavior, supply issues will change too. Here’s why it’s a great time to be on FIRE while things work out. 

Safety during a time of pandemic

In this strange new world, safety to the loudest among us seems to be defined only by a gaggle or person’s own perception. Whether it’s a workplace manager, co-worker, or some random person who shows up to express and inject themselves into everyone else’s life. 

When it comes to personal safety, people can believe what they want to believe. Smoking or riding a motorcycle without a helmet for instance. I happen to believe based on medical advice and something called scientific evidence that handling rattlesnakes is dangerous. I quietly live my life, keeping it to myself while avoiding contact with rattlesnakes. But in this new world if questioned or cornered and I mention that to a card carrying member of the religious serpent handlers, they just might loudly call me a godless heathen and angrily condemn me as sheep while trying to toss me a snake. 

During this pandemic, aside from those who we commend for choosing to because of their heightened sense of duty, many other folks were and are forced to endure unsafe conditions. Whether of their own desperate financial situation or bullied into it. 

  • Being on FIRE means being able to decide for yourself: When and where we go, what we do, and who we do it with. 
  • Being on FIRE means never having a need to yell and scream about our own safety decisions and viewpoints nor put up with anyone else’s efforts to force us to their “beliefs”. 
  • When on FIRE we’re able to tell someone demanding that we unsafely bend to their beliefs to piss off when necessary. We have the resources to live our lives without crying, pathetic whining, claiming victimhood, or blaming others for the consequences of our own decisions. We have what has been referred to as “F you money” and just don’t have to put up with unsafe conditions or other people’s BS.

Others can go ahead and feel free to handle all the rattlesnakes they desire. I’m on FIRE, so that’s a hard NO for me.

Spending relief in these inflationary times 

All the hand wringing about inflation has been more meh than a problem to our frugal lifestyle early retirement budget. Why? Because we have flexibility and time to manage it. FIRE takes having disciplined spending. It also requires patience and planning. All are great skills to have and use in these inflationary times. Taking the time to search out deals, alternatives, and of course just making due when things are tough to find or are too expensive. In retirement there’s time and usually no need to hurry. 

We refuse to blow money needlessly driving around. 

My wife and I enjoyed plenty of bicycling this summer that benefited both our wallets and health. We limited our driving and although fuel prices bite the big one, we just refused to buy a lot of it.

We set limits to what we are willing to pay for things. 

Nine years ago I paid $2,300 to have the exterior of my 2 story 15XX square foot house painted. When bids to repaint came in at $7,400 and $10,200 this past summer I just asked them to please leave. Their rebuttal, this the pandemic inflationary price reality that it now cost. Well here’s my reality, I’m not paying that. I just started painting it myself and staying the same colors. I painted a few hours a week in the final couple of warm months and will pick it up again in the spring to finish. This way I budget for both the cost of paint and not making it a giant PITA

If inflation is keeping anyone on the retirement fence, consider the possibility that these inflated prices are here to stay. 

Even when supply chain relief comes, nobody should assume business will lower prices. People have shown what they are willing to pay and continue to keep buying. When it comes to pricing, capitalism is sticky that way and instead of lowering prices they will likely pocket profits. Fence sitting hoping to wait out inflation means spending far more in time of a finite period called YOUR LIFE. 

There are lots of ways to save money on groceries and other necessities. Cutting the cord and moving to low cost wireless has never been easier and done without sacrifice. You also will have the time to learn and tackle DIY projects. 

FIRE portfolios are fat!

Even my less risk-averse investment portfolio is splitting the skinny jeans it was wearing. Prices are up and so are our long-term investment returns. We all know that a portfolio valuation today isn’t guaranteed to remain that way. That’s always a retiree’s focus when number crunching their long-term lifestyle funding needs. Having a fatter portfolio makes this a great time to be on FIRE because it provides options. 

If today’s economic challenges cause anyone retirement pause, maybe consider rebalancing or restructuring the portfolio. High inflation environments make holding too much cash a money loser as far as purchasing power over time. But cash still has its role. Consider establishing a portfolio bucket strategy to smooth concerns. Although cash earns very little in interest, you are locking into portfolio profits already earned. Look at cash as retirement funding insurance.

Plenty of paid work opportunities for a perfect retirement gig

I know that I am always preaching this, but retirement is the absence of needing to work, not the absence of work. When I ditched my career at the age of 51 in 2009, I fully intended to embrace that definition of retirement. I called it a retire early and often lifestyle. Even during the recession I was able to work in areas of interest and passion. Those retirement gigs were far more rewarding than my long career had ever been. 

There are many opportunities for those of FIRE to entertain and leverage to their advantage with today’s Great Resignation environment and an active Antiwork movement. It’s not just me seeing this. A trend has been seen of people unretiring. The perfect camouflage to cloak your retire early and often intentions while business is eager to hire. 

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There’s always going to be craziness and uncertainty when it comes to early retirement.

What makes this a great time to be on FIRE is that it prepares us to handle it all. Personal finance patience and discipline that are learned on our FIRE journey are the necessary habits and skills to be successful. 

Hopefully I’ve provided some inspiration here for anyone struggling to decide on their next FIRE related steps. I don’t know what will happen in the future and I’m not a financial planner. Just someone who retired young during the great recession and shares my observations and tips based on my 12 years of early retirement experience. I do recommend that before you make any big financial or retirement decision, especially if unsure and still on the fence, check your numbers, and consult with a certified finance professional for advice. 

Thinking About Retiring? 6 non-financial tips for a happier retirement start

If you’re considering calling it time to retire then I have a few non-financial tips for a happier retirement start. A lot of my early retirement relied on winging it. I was aware of the non-financial aspects of retirement. But I primarily focused on all the money stuff. As far as non-financial aspects, things I thought were important really weren’t. Resulting in wasting too much energy on the wrong stuff. Not that it went bad, it just could have been smoother. 

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Creating A Smoother and Happier Retirement Start

Forget about workplace legacy

I had a long career and the opportunity to improve the business and professionally influence, teach, and elevate a lot of people. In my final weeks before retirement I expended way too much energy trying to feel that I was leaving a workplace legacy. Key takeaway here is “trying to feel”. The reality is we and our accomplishments are all soon forgotten. I realized soon after I retired that any workplace legacy is short lived as life moves on, as it should. 

My tip is that anyone with notions of this sort should understand what you truly feel your workplace legacy is. Then why you feel the need to leave a legacy at work. Try to separate out what is being done for ego. Do only what is necessary to provide peace of your own mind regarding your retirement. There is absolutely no reason to run yourself ragged in your last months, days, weeks on the job trying to appease legacy vapor.  

Give just enough advanced notice of your retirement to the boss

The best way to retire is on our own terms, when we decide it’s time. Some people like to just pull an abrupt exit either because their position allows for it or they have had it. Others may have critical responsibilities and still care about their career, wanting to leave on good terms without hurting the business or coworkers. If that is the case then it’s alright to protect yourself from adverse reaction to any announcement of retiring

I gave my boss a month’s notice. Not that I hadn’t left clues of my early retirement thoughts long before, but it still came as an unwelcome surprise. It was a little too much notice and resulted in a lot of work and hours to cover them when I would have appreciated a gentler retirement takeoff. 

My tip to anyone wondering how much notice to give is to keep it to yourself for as long as professionally possible. The very minimum is the same as any resignation, 2 weeks notice. If that is really still a thing. The other is giving approximately the amount of notice needed for them to reasonably find your replacement, within limits. I would set that timeline. Don’t wait on them to get started if they’re dragging their feet. I was later told I wouldn’t be replaced so I could have technically danced out without any notice. I learned my lesson, my second early retirement announcement was aligned with completion of my project. This time I let them know just in time as they were preparing to assign the next big project. 

Treat any exit interview diplomatically

As a retiring employee there’s really no beneficial reason to participate in a retirement exit interview. Unless of course you are counting on them bringing you back later for a sweet short-term contract gig. I would always rather not burn bridges even when there was a lot on my mind about what could have been a better company environment. Things that were done during my long career, dark motivations to retire early. 

My tip, if you can’t avoid the exit interview altogether, play the middle of the road. I knew some of the things they don’t want to hear would just be marked as grumbling from a disgruntled employee no matter how beneficial it would be if improved. Positive things would be happily used in company promotionals to tell everyone still there how good they have it.  

Preplan what you’re retiring to

Everyone knows to do this. I think when we are still on the job preparing for retirement that we over simplify what is really about to happen. The easy part is rejoicing in knowing what we are leaving. I know that I figured my hobbies and bucket list of opportunities was all I needed to know what I’m retiring to. I was wrong because there are a lot of mental adjustments when leaving behind the lifetime structure of a career. 

My tip, make sure to add some structure to your retirement. Even if you have little to no big things to first accomplish, define your routine. Make sure it includes growing your social circle. It wasn’t until I retired that I realized that almost all of my social contacts were work related. It took some effort to grow it in retirement and I consider it my biggest retirement accomplishments. 

Reinvent yourself because it truly is the perfect time to start your new life

The best part of retirement is having the opportunity to reinvent yourself. Being no longer limited by the definitions of career or unrewarding obligation. Let go of all the muck in life and start fresh with a value based mindset. What makes you tick? It felt liberating to be able to say no to things I no longer wanted to be a part of. I also refused traditional definitions of retirement itself. I embraced the definition that retirement is the absence of needing to work, not the absence of working. Taking on a couple of opportunities to learn and do things long interested in. 

My tip is to be picky in whatever you decide you want to be. Walk past anything resembling the mud from your previous life and concentrate on the gold. No matter what anyone else thinks. Retirement means being able to make our own definitions about our retirement and what we want to be. 

Give yourself time to transition

Retirement is a mindwarp. After the celebration we all go through some things. Especially after the last paycheck clears. There are key steps we need to take to complete our transition from work to retirement. I know my retirement planning shortfalls came quickly to light. I not only had to put in effort to correct them but I also beat myself up for not being more prepared. That probably weighed on me more than the actual mishaps. What else did I fail to account for?

My tip is give yourself time to work through all of the unknowns of transitioning from career to retirement. We don’t know what we don’t know. Everyone will have their unique winging-it phase. It will all work out as long as we want it to and put in the effort. 

How I Knew I Had Enough To Retire Early

Many people want to retire early to live a life free from the rat race. It takes having a certain mentality and the financial means to pull it off. Even with meeting those requirements on paper, it can be difficult to really know when we have enough to retire early and make it work over the long-term. 

I was mentally ready and willing to ditch the career at age 40. But it wasn’t hard to figure out then that I didn’t have the means to do it. At that time in 1998 I only had around $100,000 in my 401K ($160K converted into today’s dollars), some debt, and no idea how to fund our lives without my demanding career. So began an early retirement plan and the 10 year journey to get there. Then came questioning my readiness until the moment I knew I did have just enough to retire early. Enough in more ways than one. 

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Once I Knew I Had Just Enough To Retire Early It Was Easier To Jump

Knowing that you have enough to retire early is a lot tougher than knowing you don’t. It was obvious when I first started my early retirement journey to see there was no way to pull it off. But as financial goals are met and numbers vastly improve, the real math and mind warp begins. 

The Mechanics Of Knowing I Was Good To Retire When I Did

I Became A Budget Master

I wouldn’t have been able to call it time to retire without first knowing exactly what our preferred lifestyle would cost. We had years to dial it in. I knew how much I not only needed to fund our lives but how much I wanted. 

I Cleared Date Milestones

When I started my FIRE quest I knew when I would qualify for some retirement benefits at my job. My 10 year plan revolved around hitting those milestones for a pension and retirement healthcare. Even though during my 10 year plan the company was taken over through a merger and the company promised retirement benefits were heavily diminished, I still cleared the date milestones to get what was left that I’d earned. Other milestones to consider are bonuses, meeting 401K thresholds or company match payment dates, stock option vesting, or other beneficial age based milestones. 

I Tracked My Portfolio And Retirement Calculator Results

I tracked my early retirement portfolio chances through the FIRECalc retirement calculator during my 10 year plan. Talk to 100 people about what kind of a calculated success percentage they need to feel comfortable pulling the retirement trigger and you’ll get 100 different answers from 85% to 200%. Everyone has to make that decision. I was satisfied with 90% and up. 

Settling The Mental Conflict Of Taking The Retirement Leap 

Reversing Decades Of Conditioning 

We are preconditioned to always want more. Better grades, bigger degree, more pay, higher career position, newest doohickey, the list goes on. Our dreams can even become inflated. I knew I was mentally ready to retire after years of reversing that conditioning through frugal living and distancing my identity from what I did for money. It was easy to walk away and made it easier to get through my retirement transition

Trusting The Numbers And Accepting Calculated Risk

It’s easy to submit to doubt when breaking norms. There’s a feeling of safety in conformity and portfolio overkill. For anyone who doesn’t equate retirement to a traditional or particular age, or having a million dollar plus portfolio, actually knowing you have enough to retire goes far beyond running numbers. It requires trusting the plan, your calculated results, and believing in your own ability to adapt and be flexible as things change going forward. There is always risk for those who don’t have the benefit of an extremely fat portfolio. I was mentally ready and willing to accept that risk for the reward it offered.  

Acknowledging The Work And Lifespan Tipping Points

I was there, I knew I mentally had enough to retire early. I was at the working tipping point when the job became less attractive than the income and portfolio padding it provided. The little voice became louder that there must be something better than this. Then the lifespan tipping point of years slipping away. Years that can’t be bought back. 

I Still Had A Hiccup

I had done everything right and still had to make an adjustment until I could confidently know both financially and mentally that I could retire early. 

The recession set in just as I approached my planned early retirement date of October 2008. It sent many of my financial goals into retreat. Numbers can look good one day and bad the next with market volatility. But the recession’s subsequent and prolonged market drop was off the charts. I delayed retirement a year until I felt the market drop had bottomed out and my calculated success rate returned within an acceptable range. That and a little mental push, courtesy of new asinine executive directed policy and work changes coming. I had enough!

 

Seeing what we need to see to know we have enough to retire early is going to look different for everyone. It’s like beauty. It’s always difficult to explain but we know it when we see it. The same applies to knowing it’s the perfect time to retire on our terms when we’re truly ready both financially and mentally to take the leap.